What is the greatest commandment? To Love God with all you heart, mind and spirit.
When you love someone, your whole attention only focuses on that single person. And when you want to talk to that person, you go straight to that person.
Jesus was asked what is the greatest commandment, and He answered:
“You shall love you God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.” Matthew 23:5
So, we should love god with ALL our HEART, SOUL and MIND.
Those three factors comprise what we call as a Healthy Relationsip.
How much time do we spend with God? 1 day in a week on Sundays? 1 hour perhaps?
If you really love someone, then your heart, your soul and your mind will constantly be of him or her. And to even think of somebody else is an act of betraying our true feelings to the point of infidelity. In every relationship, there are only 2 persons. But if a third person gets into the relationship,then things become complicated.
Similary, some people claim to love God with all their heart, but still involve others ( money, success, careers, hobbies, fame) in their relationship with God.
In life, the time spent with the our loved ones means a lot. And how much time you spent with that loved one, speaks LOVE louder than your words.
God Loves You so much that He sent his only Son to suffer and die on the cross for our salvation. No human father can ever ask his only son to die for people that his father loves. And yet, we take that love for granted.
Remember what God said:
Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. (Deuteronomy 6:5 -5)